Sometimes, the constant failure to climax can be exceedingly frustrating.  24-year-old Rebecca, who became so fed up with her orgasm obsession that she finally decided to drop it entirely and stop worrying about it. She lost her virginity when she was 15, but never managed to reach a climax. Over subsequent years, she quickly grew tired of overthinking her sexual encounters and constantly having to reassure her lovers that she was in fact still enjoying herself. Rebecca now approaches sex with a lighter attitude: "If you worry about whether you're orgasming or not, you're probably not going to have as good of a time." Changing the way she thinks about intercourse has made a world of difference for her, allowing Rebecca, who is dating two men on a regular basis, to let go of her preoccupation with orgasms.